Information via accrediting organization American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
For many people, a cancer diagnosis is accompanied by complete shock. No one believes that they or someone in their family will be diagnosed with cancer. However, cancer affects millions of families every year. One of the most challenging aspects of cancer is managing the disruption that occurs in everyday life, in addition to other life stressors (raising children, planning for retirement, working, recent divorce, etc.). When someone is diagnosed with cancer, regardless of the type, the diagnosis can evoke a great deal of worry and fear throughout the family.
The uncertainty regarding the type of cancer, prognosis, and treatment options can be overwhelming for patients and family members. In fact, partners and family members often exhibit more distress than the cancer patient. This distress may be a result of losing control, feeling hopeless, financial difficulties and anticipatory loss that are often associated with a cancer diagnosis. While cancer can have a substantial impact on physical health, there are also varying degrees of psychological and social implications that result from being diagnosed and treated for cancer.
Some problems related to cancer can be specific to the period of life (early adulthood, middle adulthood, late adulthood) that cancer occurs. For instance, a 40-year-old mother of two small children with ovarian cancer could have a number of different challenges than a 70-year-old man with prostate cancer. In addition, some families will thrive in the face of adversity while other relationships deteriorate. Many families do not know how to communicate about illness and often develop maladaptive patterns that can be detrimental to the recovery process and quality of life. However, families who effectively communicate report becoming closer with their loved ones.
Cancer patients and their family members may experience some of the following effects:
Despite the shock of the initial diagnosis of cancer, many families are capable of adjusting very well without professional help. However, one should seek help if one or more of the following is true:
Many individuals could benefit from seeking out help whenever someone is first diagnosed with cancer in order to make the adjustment to the illness and side effects more efficiently and to prevent long-term implications from maladaptive patterns of dealing with cancer. However, most seek out help when they first notice one of the listed symptoms.
Through understanding how cancer impacts the family, a family therapist is capable of helping family members effectively communicate about the illness, expectations, and adjustments over time. While the treatments do not change the course of the disease, the idea is that the treatment will reduce the amount of distress that the cancer causes the family. MFTs can help the family retake control in their life and effectively make decisions that improve quality of life. Problem-solving strategies have been a focus for therapy with cancer patients and families, as decision making during a time of crisis can be difficult. In addition, cognitive-behavioral therapy has been effective in helping individuals, couples, and families manage some of the worries and fears associated with cancer. Couple or family therapy can help the family improve communication and understand how cancer has changed the family.
Adjusting to an illness within the family is never easy. A family therapist can assist the family in managing role changes, improving communication and relational dynamics, and preparing the family as the disease changes. Understanding and managing the emotional impact that cancer has on a family can create a proactive, positive family environment, especially with regards to problem-solving. Decision making can often be challenging in the face of a difficult diagnosis and a family therapist can help families navigate through the hard decisions that they may be facing. A qualified family therapist can help you manage the emotional (depression, anxiety, worries, fear) social (financial, job changes, disability) and relational (communication, role changes, sexual dysfunction) issues associated with cancer. Following treatment, MFTs can help the family adjust to the multiple side effects that often accompany cancer and its treatment. For instance, individuals with breast cancer, prostate cancer, or other pelvic malignancies may have a variety of sexual dysfunction. Sexual dysfunction from illness can disrupt intimacy and cause additional psychological distress that could be remedied from work with a family therapist.
Information via accrediting organization American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
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